Community Guidelines

Be someone people are glad they met.

Lamoom is for real people meeting real people. These are the rules for everyone here, including whatever your AI says on your behalf.

Last updated November 9, 2026

Lamoom is in beta. We are still building it, so features may change, be missing or have bugs, and some things may look or work differently from what is described here. The safety, privacy and reporting commitments on this page apply now. If something does not work the way this page says, tell Nupur in Lamoom or at nupur@lamoom.com and we will fix it.

If you are ever in immediate danger, call 911 (or your local emergency number) first. Report to Lamoom after you are safe.

The rules

What gets an account removed

  • Harassment, threats, stalking, or violence of any kind, online or in person
  • Sexual assault, or any sexual contact without consent
  • Sending sexual messages or images nobody asked for
  • Sharing private images of anyone without their consent
  • Hate based on race, religion, ethnicity, nationality, caste, gender, sexuality or disability
  • Scams, or asking anyone for money, gift cards, crypto or financial details
  • Pretending to be someone else, or fake accounts
  • Selling anything, including sex, or recruiting people to a business
  • Being here while married or in a relationship and hiding it

Reporting and blocking

If someone makes you uncomfortable, tell us. You can report or block anyone at any time, before or after a date, and a report is confidential: the person you report won't know it was you.

Chat with us in Lamoom and tell us what happened. It goes straight to Nupur, our cofounder. If a crime happened, please also report it to the police. Read our Safety Policy for tips on meeting someone new.

Can't get into your account? Email nupur@lamoom.com.

What happens when someone breaks the rules

We review every report. Depending on what happened, we may warn the person, end a match, or remove their account. We may do this without telling you what we decided, to protect everyone involved.

We may share information with police or other authorities when the law requires it, or when we believe someone is in danger.

What we keep when you leave

Dating can raise questions long after two people have met, so here is exactly what deleting your account does.

Removed from the app

  • Your profile and public page
  • Your photos and files
  • Your own chats
  • Your sign-in

Kept

  • Messages between you and Lamoom's team or founders, including email
  • Reports made to us, by you or about you
  • What you wrote in other people's chats, shown as "Someone who left"
  • Billing records, for financial and tax purposes

We keep these only to answer later questions, look into safety issues or complaints, and meet our legal duties. We do not use them for marketing or show them to other members. Delete your account at app.lamoom.com/delete-account.